KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. I hope I helped!! There is nothing I don't love about this man. As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. I am hoping he will talk to me soon. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. Sort of know if it will work out or not early on and dont want to play games anymore, but can still be attraction. Discern your partner based on their true character, and let astrology be secondary to your gut instinct! Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. The Band was on Break in the Back, i was not looking for him, was sitting at the Bar talking with the Bartender etc, having a good Time. Go figure. From what it looks like if you bother a Scorpio and show them you care they get upset. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. Thats when it all came back to me he did the same thing when we dated the first time but not as adults we have not dated. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. 1. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. A scorpio man is something else. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. Have I lost him for good? I decided not to talk to him anymore and he kept asking me to talk. The Highs. This is #1 for a reason. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. Thank you. Be successful . I don't think he respects me. Hi. Like I said its better to move on now because he has. Do it while you [] The post Scorpio Daily Horoscope - 28 February 2023 appeared first on Yasmin Boland. Someone who is with me can never see it coming. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. But I am telling you.. When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors - there's a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. I really liked this hub. He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. I am a pisces. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. This is so true! Then I explained I do like him but it seemed he made up his mind. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. . He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. What to do when Scorpio man ignores you? Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. P.S. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. Does liking means close to loving? Scorpio men are the intensely sexy men of the zodiac sign, they exude mysteriousness and a dark aura that makes women turn their heads around every time these men walk out of the room, deep beneath the hot and cold surface they project into the world, there lies extreme emotional intensity and burden, these men feel too much which can make them I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! Said we must become friends b4 lovers. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. This Scorpio guy made me feel secure as every time I asked him something out of my curiosity (resulting from my insecure), he always gives that clear answer. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. but what actually is he doing? Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. Your plan will not work if he pays no attention . I am completely shocked by all of the responses. Trust issue or what i dont know. 1. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. He's older too so idk is it possible that he breaks up with someone that he loves and 'never' talk to them again? I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. I didn't take him serious. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. The first thing and one of the best things to remember though, this is how the you may see . Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. I have even called him out on his silence. He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. Well, the last thing I want is to be a stress to him. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. 5 He enjoys private, romantic dates. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. While Scorpio men are well known for being guarded and secretive, don't confuse those traits with dishonesty. The next morning he broke up with me via text. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. we dont live in the same roof but always exerting effort to see me even if he is not feeling well. I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. If he disap p ears, it might be your instinct to blow up his phone with calls and text messages until he replies to you. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. So basically breaking up with me. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. I have deleted him now, I just want to know why do they disappear instead of fixing the problem when apparently its his fault that he messed up by going on date with someone else. He has slowly grown colder and further away. But actually, they are great observers. Hasn't replies to a single email. The feeling of hurt remains etched in their memory. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. We pick up where we left off. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. He also had an additive personality. I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. If your Scorpio is the type to pop up whenever he needs something, only to disappear again, then stoop to his level - give him the old cold shoulder. The guy I like is a Scorpio. I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. Mine always seems to have no time for me . When we met in person, sparks flew. Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. Scorpio's feelings are profoundly felt, and while most water signs have trouble verbalizing their feelings, Scorpio has an all-or-nothing outlook on life. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. They will want to think things over before making a decision. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. The touchy-feely Scorpio man will make attempts to hold you and hug you if he wants to get close to you. Be honest cause hes very intuituve and can read you really well. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. Make sure he sees that. What Is A Scorpio Man Like? 6) Why do you care? Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. i know i;m not his priority. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. He did not talk to me at all . Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most. If he is distant keep it moving and show him that you wont lose any sleep. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. 1. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! I am freaking crazy about this guy. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. We do everything together, but I am just a "friend" no PDA etc.. which is 110% fine with me. I don't know if he still likes me. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. But do I have hope? The one I dealt with and still am uses coworkers to try to make me jealous but because I've seen him watching me and eavesdropping on me, I believe he's just looking for something on me. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Sagittarians are the Zodiac's wanderers. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). He sometimes came by my Place to Visit before he went to his Gigs. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. Amy DeMarco from Chicago on July 30, 2012: I dated a Scorpio for about six months and your description here is pretty accurate. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. 6. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. A scorpio man will be faithful only if he is happy. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog's tail. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. You may notice the following behaviors in a Scorpio man when he is testing you: He Pulls the Disappearing Act He Asks for Help or a Favor He Becomes Quieter in Conversations He Asks a Lot of Personal Questions He Shares Intimate Details About His Life He Tests Your Reaction to Conflict He Asks About Your Past Relationships He Plays Hard to Get Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. I seem to be making all the efforts in the relationship . I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). Why?? Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. Any sign can date any sign; however, studying synastry can help pinpoint particular strengths and challenges in any partnership. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. I have always wanted True Love with a Woman. 21 Signs A Scorpio Man Shows When In love 1. so yeah.. is he playing. Source: Favim. They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. Would appreciate your advice. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. usually he will reply with yes, love. He has never been mean or anything like that. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. That was only a month of knowing him. 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